Men and Women
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“A gracious woman retaineth honour: and strong men retain riches” (Proverbs 11:16).
In Proverbs 11:16, Solomon gives us all something to aspire to, to be gracious women and strong men.
According to BlueLetterBible.org, the word ‘gracious’ in this verse comes from the Hebrew word “ḥēn” (Strong’s H2580), which is defined by Strong’s as “graciousness, i.e. subjective (kindness, favor) or objective (beauty):—favour, grace(-ious), pleasant, precious, (well-) favoured” (“ḥēn“). A woman who is kind, pleasant, and gracious is a woman to be favored and honored by those around her. In his Commentary, Matthew Henry notes the following in regard to Proverbs 11:16 reference to gracious women,
“…a gracious woman is as solicitous to preserve her reputation for wisdom and modesty, humility and courtesy, and all those other graces that are the true ornaments of her sex, as strong men are to secure their estates; and those women who are truly gracious will, in like manner, effectually secure their honour by their prudence and good conduct” (698).
According to BlueLetterBible.org, the word ‘strong’ comes from the Hebrew word “ʿārîṣ ” (Strong’s H6184), which is defined by Strong’s as “fearful, i.e. powerful or tyrannical:—mighty, oppressor, in great power, strong, terrible, violent (“ʿārîṣ “). A man who is strong is mighty and inspires awe in those around him, while striking terror in the hearts of his enemy. In his Commentary, Matthew Henry, notes the following in regard to Proverbs 11:16 reference to strong men,
“…those who bustle in the world, who are men of spirit and interest, and are able to make their part good against all who stand in their way, are likely to keep what they have and to get more, while those who are weak are preyed upon by all about them” (698).
Works Cited
“H6184 – ʿārîṣ – Strong’s Hebrew Lexicon (KJV).” Blue Letter Bible. Web. 25 Feb, 2026. https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h6184/kjv/wlc/0-1/.
“H2580 – ḥēn – Strong’s Hebrew Lexicon (KJV).” Blue Letter Bible. Web. 25 Feb, 2026. https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h2580/kjv/wlc/0-1/.
Henry, Matthew. “Proverbs 11:16.” Matthew Henry’s Commentary On the Whole Bible: New Modern Edition. Volume 3 and Volume 6, Hendrickson Publishers, Inc., March 1996.
Holy Bible: Giant Print with Study Aids. Dugan Publishers, Inc., 1984.
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